I think the concept of virginity was created by men who thought their penises were so important it changes who a woman is.
realist shit I have ever read.
Melinda Ozongwu discusses the growing disparity between our parents ideal career paths and the choices our generation of creatives are making.
“In Africa there is still a very archaic scale of achievement that is being used to measure success. You don’t have to be a good doctor, you don’t have to be a practicing lawyer, you don’t have to graduate with good grades; just get the degree and the title so I can tell my friends and they can tell their friends, and you will be someone.”
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Many creative Afropolitans, on the continent and abroad, can relate to this. What has your journey been like? Share you story in the comments below.
This is the funniest natural hair video I have ever seen in my life. There are so many twists and turns. I never knew what this girl was going to say or do. Oh my god.
OH MY GOD
her west african accent oh my god
I love headwraps….can you tell? #headwraps #naturalhair
10 Million strong! And growing!
I’ve got 99 problems and they’re all because I procrastinate.
Sometimes at night I suddenly become aware of all the things I’m missing out on right now, and all the people who I’m not close to anymore, and all of the good times that will never happen again, and all the people who meant the world to me who have forgotten about me forever, and I get this awful feeling that’s kind of like a mix between loneliness and nostalgia.
Michael Jackson’s medical records from January 1984 show that he had recently been diagnosed with discoid lupus.
Discoid lupus is an autoimmune disease where the body fights against itself, and Jackson’s expressed itself in hair loss, scalp infections, pleurisy in his lungs, skin rashes, skin lesions, joint pain and it would seem his vitiligo was also an expression of his lupus. Vitiligo is a common side autoimmune disease to many sufferers of lupus.
So when people tell you that Michael Jackson bleached himself into his vitiligo, ask them how he managed to get his medical records from 1984 to reflect that he had been suffering from a more severe form of autoimmune disease all along, and if he faked his vitiligo, did he also fake his lupus back then to the extent he had to take medication to ensure his pleurisy wouldn’t return, medication to stem the hair and skin issues, and also that he was already seeing a rhuematologist for joint issues all the way back then, during the height of his fame?
At some point people need to accept that they were very very wrong about him.
This is SO timely, thank you!!!
yep.Looking at all y’all little natural hair bloggers that stress curl definition like its the cure to cancer
the problem with being a procrastinator and a perfectionist at the same time is that you want amazing grades but are too lazy to do your work
what i realized from my discussion with someone:
i want to start living nights that i can’t remember with people that i wont forget.
😝 forever tired. Bleh 💀 (Taken with Instagram)
*Here you have various WoC (women of colour) wearing their traditional, religious and cultural head-coverings. Please try and persuade me that all these women, from various continents are oppressed because they choose to wear traditional/religious/cultural garments.
As a woman of colour, I preserve the right to wear my garments religiously and culturally. I will not take off my headscarf or any form of head covering because your ignorance has let you to believe that I am ‘oppressed’. I will wear my culture and religion with pride, and shouldn’t have to be afraid I will face discrimination because of your lack of knowledge of my culture or religion.