Our species has existed for over 200,000 years whilst the majority of our advancements have occurred in the last 200. It’s easy to forget that we owe our prosperity to those ancient ancestors who slowly learned and passed on their knowledge through generations who lived in far less comfort.
Just because dating is tough for black women doesn’t mean you need to settle for dating a dick like this. Why the hell is he talking about who else he wants to date as he’s dating you?
Stop talking to this man. And stop internalizing his crap. You don’t have to beg for a man to see you as a prize. There are other men who will see in you everything that they could ever want.